Updated: Jan 15, 2019
The enemy is not a person; it is hate, which resides within each person to varying degrees. We must not fight other people, but the hate within them. We can do so with kindness; it breaks up the patterns of behavior that people have come to expect.
When someone upsets us, it is ideal not to focus on their behavior, but to focus on how we can continue to better ourselves in our interactions with them.